Here are a few good reads:
The Whole Brain Child by Dan Siegel and Tina Bryson, Random House, 2011
No Drama Discipline by Dan Siegel and Tina Bryson, Random House, 2014
The Out of sync Child by Carol Kranowitz, Perigree, 1998
Sensational Kids by Lucy Jane Miller, Random House, 2014
Special Needs IEP Coach 